This Is Why I Am An Idiot

Last night TOYH and I went to a booster meeting for the Minneapolis Southwest Swim Team. I must say that this crowd of parents is different from the parents we encounter at Emerson. We were probably the only folks there last night that shop at thrift stores because we want to, not because we like the "shabby chic" look. All the parents last night spoke English as their first language and none of the moms had shaved heads. The coach made it sound like the team could be pretty good this year, yet this group of folks didn't seem like it was filled with "hockey parents" who were going to demand that their daughter swim varsity or else.

I had forgotten what kind of commitment it takes to be a high school athlete. KyKy is coming home exhausted, mostly because she hasn't swum that much in the past few years. But there are morning practices, weight lifting, Saturday practices, practices before meets. The coach mentioned that the varsity would be swimming up to 8000 yards a day. I'm thinking that has got to be accomplished in 2 practices. I don't remember swimming 8000 yards in one practice in H.S. I probably did it in college, but that seems like a pretty tall order for a two hour H.S. practice. Coach Pam allows for very few absences from practice - injury/illness, religious (KyKy might convert to Judaism so she can get Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippor off) or freshman orientation. I suppose there might be a couple of other reasons, but you get the point.

I don't recall ever skipping any practices in my freshman through senior years in H.S. I wonder how many thousands of hours I spent in the pool or on the field in those years. I was totally dedicated to sport in H.S., and my grades reflected that. If I had been as dedicated to school work as I had been to sport, I probably would have done better than "above average" in school. I don't think KyKy will slough off school like I did, but she might burn out, which I never did. I didn't care about school as much as I should have.

That being said, I'm so pleased she's on the team. She's going to make friends, have fun and accomplish things with them that she'll look back on fondly later. Being on a team, whether you are a successful athlete or not is simply a good thing. There might be times when you want to quit because of all the hard work, but because you have friends on the team, you stick it out. I'm hoping the team gets her in their clutches.

The team captains pick out the design of the suits the girls will wear in the meets. The suits don't have any purple in them partly because the team is combined with Washburn H.S., so finding a purple and white, blue and orange suit off the shelf is probably impossible. What's cool about the suits is that they have 612 emblazoned on them. Why? That's the area code for Minneapolis (and Richfield too I think) and there are only a few H.S. swim teams left in 612, so when Soutwest goes to regions with all the 952 suburban powerhouses, they're goin' to represent.

Word.